17 Aug “Sexual Incompatibility” Could be About Health Issues
The problem is usually that we're really uncomfortable telling the other person what we want, or we don't truly understand how the other person's responses work. Here are some posts that can help:
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“Sexual Incompatibility” Could Be About Sin
Most worrisome, sexual incompatibility could be a sin issue. If a husband is heavily involved in pornography, or a wife in erotica, then you can start to want things that are just not right, or you can transfer your sexual energy to something other than your spouse.